Real love must not be spoken out....it is played or acted out. It is through ur action towards me that I will know u love me not by saying it by mouth. Most spoken loves are never acted. They are never real cos they only say it with their mouth but will not practice it
My name is Mary Jane. And here is my story.
Someone I called my closet friend broke my heart just yesterday.We have loved,cared and respected each other for a long time. We have never had any form of quarrel.He understands me as well as I understand him. Nothing has ever came between us since we been in each other's arms.I never taxed him,he gave me things willingly and I share whatever I have with him even without him asking me. We are more like Romeo and Juliet But just yesterday night something happened.He passed a night in my neighbor's room, that is,my close door neighbor's room without even saying hi to me.I was embarrassed by his actions bcos I can't recall having any issue with him. I wanted to go there and greet him but on a second thought I decided not to go. I sent something to him on WhatsApp but later deleted it before he could read the message. So in the morning,he sent me a text saying my character changed towards him that he decided to give me a space to think,that he doesn't want to loose his self value. That he realized he had pushed himself too much on me.....as in he said alot. And as it stands now I am so much confused and hrt💔 broken because I never expected such from him .I told him even if I offended u,u would have confronted me and tell me my offence instead of playing a childish game. He gave me no tangible reason. He said my character changed without even mentioning what I have done to him. I called him Sunday morning to know how he was doing and he came to my house on Sunday evening. We exchanged pleasantries and he said he wanted to see someone in total that he will come back . He left in peace...that was how everything ended oo.Last we talked was on Sunday and on Monday we have turned to be enemy of ourselves. If u are in my shoes what will u do? He never mentioned my offence. We have never quarreled even for once...we respected each other alot but what transpired this is still y I am confused about.
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Let him be pls
ReplyDeleteDon't ask him again
If he misses you he would come back
Yea. I think the situation here is a question of unspoken love. Is always good to straighten things out. Maybe he is now in a relationship with ur neighbor and she might be jealous that u two are besties. And u know story way dey come with besties dis days dey plenty.
ReplyDeleteBabe just let him be, you've try to know what's going on but he didn't want open,it's obvious he's tired of been around you
ReplyDeleteI will advise you move on though I know it's not gonna be easy
Everything that happens in life has a reason, some are there to stay , and some are just there temporary to either one our eyes to see the truth...... If he wasn't meant to stay baby girl I'd advice you don't push it.... Letting go will be hard but hey look on the bright side, he left for a reason so cheer up ... God has a better plan 👍👍👍 don't worry your head over someone who doesn't appreciate your value, care, love and affection.... Someone somewhere will appreciate it someday
ReplyDeleteBaby just let him be, maybe ur neighbor HV corrupt his mind about you,so just cheer up and move on
ReplyDeleteJust let him be for now.
ReplyDeleteThen later u can schedule for a talk with him. #communication#
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ReplyDeleteClose association through sex is indispensable in each sentimental relationship and when couples are not having enough association through sex, they need to plan something for fix this issue to spare the relationship. signs he loves you
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