For a man who has quick ejaculation and has tried medically to help himself needs a calculative girlfriend that will understand that that the first cum is out of anxiety and fright cause he already knows the process,
if the man is willing to accept help and training therapy from his girlfriend that is willing to help then this is how sex should go amongst them:
- A good BJ and caressing to make him cum with out sex, after that he may seem to start acting weak, Don't rush into judging nor abusing him cause it will weak him the more, just offer him a glass of water (uncold), some might initiate alcohol but mind you alcohol gets some really weak/dizzy while it energize some all depending on the body system, some might suggest an energy drink but take note we are trying to build something that would Last naturally.
- After he must have drank the water you both should have your bath together it doesn't matter how the bathroom is, whether local or foreign big all small, the idea is to keep the guy still in the mood, and as a lady you have the major role to play once the guy is willing.
u should be able to carry yourself gently and seductively/romantically throwing your partner into a wild thought, after having the bath, you as a lady I know you might be turned on as well but don't rush your guy into a romance his mind is fully already so is his body any little touch would make him explode even without being hard for long talk more of penetration,
(NB: We are trying to engage the mind into wanting more than it could get)
- while he lies down, don't do that with him lay on him try distracting him with few topics (not sexually attributed) but you say then in a more romantic or sexy way, when he gets in fully, gently caress his body (breast, ear and dick),
while you still act active in your discussion (now the aim of this is for him to take his mind off being erect or not, besides it's just a caress, his body system that he knows will never answer to that call because he is focused and bet on turning on/ getting hard),
while you gently massage the dick you might notice a little trigger that comes and goes, acts like it's getting hard then falls off again, don't feel disappointed it's a good sign, just keep doing what you are doing.
- To be even if you can't hold yourself anymore get him to have a serious foreplay with you it can linger for long or even make u cum depending on your body, while on that you must learn to work with your head you still have a mission yet to be accomplished,
I know you would want to grab him so hard moan to his ears and do other naughty things but hello haunty, your job never finish, you can kiss, grab his back , head waist stomach anyone but you must'nt cross the (EBDBA) EAR,BREAST,DICK,BALLS AND ANUS
- Now that you have cum (maybe or maybe not) you feel a bit relieved thank him like he did you a favor and promise to return the favor ( men like feeling like a Man) that alone would give him the morale to want to have more of you seeing that he didn't cum on your behalf while in an oral sex with you cause most men do that (men with same issue),
continue from where you stopped at the discussion but this time sit on him close to the dick but not on top, play with the breast/ear while you tell him sweet things that you could probably do to him in the next minute while on that try to find his most active G-spot, ( how to know the G-spot: you might touch him on the G-SPOT and it won't trigger much but once your wet-mouth draws closer to it either slowly or normal, a certain trigger/signal is sent out right round the whole body more especially at the veins on the dick whether thin or bold veins it beeps when a certain area connected specially to it is touched or sucked in a different manner).
- NOW THAT YOU HAVE FOUND THE SPOT AVOID IT ENTIRELY and play with other parts, whether the dick is hard or not gently scrub the cap on your clits, while you moan gently,( mind you if your moan gets him high then you should get your voice as low as possible make it sound more like a whisper)
- while scrubbing there is no way the guy won't get hard(even if it's not up to what you want, the most important thing is that he is hard enough to penetrate without aid) gently get in and take full charge (don't bang fast, rather ride slowly avoiding his G-spot).
He might not be strong for long or he might cum quicker than you expected don't climb down, sit/kneel on the dick and now fully caressing the G-spot, he might try stopping you cause the tickling is totally out of the world and he might scream out so loud, just persist and keep doing what you are doing, he will gradually come up again since there is nothing to cum,
this time around he will last longer than normal/usual ride him till he cums and if you are not satisfied bring the dick out place it close to the clit while kneeling then roll or scrub on it gently till you cum again then you can fall to him for a satisfying peck.
Try it thank you.
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