I have concluded, all men are this same.

 My name is Grace and here is my story 

There is this guy I love some much and we have been date for close to eightmonth now. Buh all a sudden the guy said he needed a break because he was forced to enter Yahoo because he was so broke nd he felt that I might be a distraction for him so he took a break. There was a particular time after we chatted I ended the chat with I love you nd he replied with ok nd I was wowed that watsup with this guy that taken a break does not mean you should not reply me that. So he said not that he did not love me buh he Jux need a break that is in the world now that I should give him time so I decided to give a space so after that time he will be chatting me up then I will Jux greet him normally like friends. There was a particular time I missed him for close to a week nd I decided to jux let him Know that someone is missing him oh. The reply I got was Wow nd I was surprise this time cos I never except it. so I just lock up and decided not to talk to him or chat with him for close to two weeks until he get back to school nd later ask him how school was. Not until he called before the two weeks and I decided to pick his call, telling me that I abandon him that i stop calling him I was laughing in my mind then I asked him that did he not do the same to me too. He was now saying that the way I replied his message too that was why he stop chatting me up again. So after that I started chatting with him once in a while not until wen he said I don't even love him anymore that I stop caring about him, I stop the advice I do give him. I was like where you not the one that said you needed a break he was now saying that he is sorry I even ignored is sorry he asked for money nd I was like I can't give him he was like I should not look at his behavior I was like his behavior self is worth doing him bad nd he still said he is sorry. I Jux looked at it nd decided to borrow him the money because he said they stole is ATM card and redrawed is money that was there. So he told me he was sick that is Mom said he should come home. So I asked him that is the sickness that much and he said yes that is part of the reason why his Mom said he should come home so she can treat him well as per his Mom is a nurse. When he went home I do call him through his Mom phone and he do pick it. when we started chatting back on messenger, we started chatting as fwends because I now took him as my fwend. So he will now be asking him what about my boyfriend and I will keep answering that they are fine and in my mind my Jux joking about it. He kept on asking about my boyfriend still giving him the same reply. There was a particular day he asked about it that I told him he is funny that why will he be asking about boyfriend then he said okay. Then I asked him about his own girlfriend then he said I am funny that why will I be asking him about girlfriend too. He said that I am his girlfriend. I told him that I thought we were friends now he said No oh. I was now like I thought you said you need a break he said the break is over. I was like I thought the break won't end. He said why did I say that I said because the way he do reply me then when he was on break make me think that the break won't end. Like replying me as a stranger as if am nobody to him is part of the reason why I think the break won't end. He was like I did not want the break to end because I am dating another guy now so I replied maybe. I asked him that he still want me back after everything that has happened he was like what happen I told him he reaction to me sometimes makes me feel bad nd make me feel like the relationship is going to end and we will end up going our separate ways. So he asked that am I telling him now that it over right? so I said I don't know so he said okay. I asked did he want it to be over he said No. So I told him I am not dating any guy that I was joking all this while. He said that I am lying buh I told him m serious. He said buh I let another guy have sex with me I was annoyed that why will he say that rubbish that he don't even trust me again he was now like he now how he left me. I was just laughing in my mind. He said anytime we meet he don't want to hear that we won't have sex again I told him am not interested in having sex with anyone again. He asked why I said I Jux decided not to do it again. He was now like I enjoyed the sex my school guys are giving that is why I don't want to have sex with him again I was really annoyed with him. I told him he is not okay cos if he is okay he won't be telling me that I am having sex with my school guys. So I told him I don't want to have sex with him again then he said that means I don't love him anymore. So I asked him is love now all about sex he said No. So I said if he want me back then we have to remove sex from it. He was like buh I promise him that we will do it again once we meet again. I told him I have forgotten oh nd he said I should try nd remember so I decided to go to our previous chat then I realized I truly promise him so I said in my mind that I will allow him because I promise him that why I will do it for the last time. I told him we can do any other thing aside sex or fingering me. He was like buh I promise him now I said I know buh m not just interested in that again. He said so wen we meet we won't have sex again I said I don't know. I asked him did he want me back because of sex he said No. I asked him again that why did he now want me back he said because of my advice. I told him so he don't even truly love me all this while he Jux want me back so he can be seeking my opinion in any matter. He was like No he truly love me. I said so why did he take a break he said because of the Yahoo he went to learn that he needed to focus and don't want any distraction that now he is done we can come back. So I said that was why he decided to leave he said No that he Jux took a break that he is sorry. I told him sometimes when I'm chatting with him I usually shake my head that this not the guy i use to date that he has changed a lot he still said he is sorry. He asked did I still want us back or not I said I don't know. i told him i don't want to get hurt again. I asked him did he want us back or not he said he don't know too. I opened up to him and told him I want us back like the way we where before. He said if I want him back dat I will do whatever he want I told him only what I promise that is what I will do it. So he said really I said yes. Later he said he don't want once he said wat abt once in a while I said No later he said he has changed is mind. I keep asking him to what he keep saying nothing nothing that I should not worry buh before den I have been seeing some strange stuff on Facebook timeline like him being in a relationship with a particular girl I did not take it serious. So I started asking him him are we now back together or not he keep ignoring my message he will see it and not reply me. I asked him the same question Four times he keep replying me okay and I will be like I don't need okay from you I need a simply answer he kept on ignoring my message. So one-day I just told him he should reply my message nd he should stop making me feel like a stranger to him. He smiled and he did not say anything after that. So I stopped chatting with him. Until one-day I decided to go and check his timeline well and the other girl timeline then I saw the girl used him as is cover picture and also posted him. He will comment thanks Love. My favorite. The girl too will comment on his Facebook post with sweet words he will reply thanks wifey sometimes, Thanks Ayomi. To the extent people now know they are both dating even is cousin is always hyping there relationship on his post nd her own too. Their love life is now well known to people. The day I saw all this I cried and cried. I don't even know wen the tears started coming cos I don't believe that I will ever cry for any guy and I don't believe he will ever do such with all the promise he made to me. it's really pained me so much. The guy impacted so much in my life in some many ways and I did too. I was just saying in my mind that why did he now say he want me back when he has another girlfriend I was already trying to get him off my head during those times he went on break until wen he said the break was over nd I was thinking and already wanted to come back until I saw all this. So after a while he chatted me up saying Hi I read it and ignored him, did I want to chat with anyone i read it and ignored him again, He said I went to chat with someone else I saw it nd ignored it again then he said well played I saw it and ignored it again later I logout then later came back online for like 10minutes then want back to his chat then I noticed I can't reply him again. So I said to myself that he blocked him it's was really funny. I login to my other account and noticed he was online so I told him he is very stupid that he Jux showed is level of how stupid he is. He can ignore someone buh he doesn't want anyone to ignore. Ordinary not replying hm 4 times he decided to block me he said he don't care that he can block me again if he want. I jux said he is not okay..then he did not reply me again and since then I have not talk to him talkless of calling nd he has not too. Close to three weeks now that I have not talk to him. Yesterday I decided to check my message on Facebook yesterday on my other account then I saw he chatted me up with Hi buh I decided not to reply him not even seeing it. He took a break ending of March. He decided to come back middle of April since then we have not been together like before. In my mind now I feel all guys are the same none of them can keep to there promise I was there when he needed someone to talk to. When others make me feel bad he always change my mood and when fwends left him I never left him until when he started misbehaving.He said he will never leave me. I jux feel like Love is not for everyone. I'm jux confused I don't know what to do. I don't know where to start from. Please I need your advice.