Met this guy yesterday Seeing him alone I already like him but the moment he got to where I was working I left because my shift was over
On my way I was surprise the guy drove back to me He asked for my contact which I gave him
We started chatting same yesterday, and he invited me same yesterday and I went to visit him because I was bored at home
He asked if I had a boyfriend I said no which was true.
He told me he wanted a serious relationship with me, he was quite encouraging and full of Hope, I told him what's on my mind too, from there he persuaded me for sex I really don't want it because I felt cheap, but he was too persuasive, so I had to oblige to his request, and we had sex😔😔 everything happened just yesterday, he drove me back home and told me he will meet me at my work place
I was surprised this guy didn't call to tell me he has gotten to his place, I was expecting his call this morning he didn't call, so I had to call him and ask why he said he forgot, and he is sorry
He didn't come to my work place as he promised
Please I need advise here
1 I kind of have this feeling that I have been dump
2 my mind is telling me to ask him if we are still in relationship, or he said those word just to get me laid
I know I fell cheaply but I need encouragement
20 Comments
Life no balance just endure the pain he's gone if you insist on stolking him you go jus de collect fuck de go, its his loss
ReplyDeleteask him and hear from him, he say stupid things leave him and move on... so many of ppl have been in your shoes but are still making things right... ask him and know your stand
ReplyDeleteHe only used you as one night stand. Just move on and learn from it and you should never consider yourself as a cheap lady.
ReplyDeleteI love you too 😅😅😅😅
ReplyDeleteLet's date 😂
Seriously, your kind of girl na rare
How I wish I will see one 😭😭
First....... I hope it's not the Jenny that I know.
ReplyDeleteThen my advice is" you're mad .. werey
😂💔
DeleteBaby Itz not my own Jane oko
DeleteHahahaha
DeleteU made a mistake by allowing him to use you but since he's acting this way I suggest you forget about him and move on with your life he doesn't deserve you
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, no woman is cheap...
ReplyDeleteThe fact u accepted to satisfy a man's urge, it doesn't make u cheap...
When u are cheap is when you realize this particular guy is not for u, yet u keep on having sex for LUST.
If u ask me, calling him and asking him questions about what transpired between you both, it will be as if u are really into him. *Don't get me wrong, I know u might have feelings for him*
But make him feel little of himself by not giving him another call again.
Sister if he truly loves you he will come back again... and this time around if he does... ~use your heae~������
You said it all...nice one
DeleteNo need to be waiting for him he might come back or not, but I think there is no true love there, to be sincere don't allow ur self to be Victim of using sex to start a relationship, not matter anything, is too fast naaa, he just collect the thing and go, even if he comes back to you na to collect and jakpa, think wise dear✌️
ReplyDeleteSpeechless 🤷🏻♀️
ReplyDeleteEverything that happens, happens for a reason!!!
ReplyDeleteYou just have to forget everything
Life goes on
To get true love diz days na something else. Even relationship wey truth dy dy hard to get.
ReplyDeleteEverybody just dy lie upandan.
A guy can do or say anything to get the pleasure he wants. U shouldn't have allowed him to take advantage of u in the name of love.
Move on with your life and genuine love will locate u.
We meuveee.... Regardless
Tho I don't know you, but regardless of your beauty, you don't have sense...yes. Am sorry to say that but it's true.
ReplyDeleteYou met someone for the first time and had sex with him the same day, my dear you're toooo cheap.
Quote me, you won't see the guy again. If I'm the guy,I won't date you because you're too cheap
My love head straight up. Call him if his not giving u any positive answer block him and move on with ur life please n never u make such mistake again okay nobody is above mistake duo put it in prayers
ReplyDeleteMy dear obviously you ve been duped just ,go for check up if u both didn't use protection and move on with your life and never to repeat the mistake again . Thank you
ReplyDeleteAnyways you tried by letting him lay u dat day at least what will happen will still happen even if u denied him of it.. so it's better the way u had sex with him at least u go move kwa cos no long story
ReplyDeleteDearie, experience they say, is the best Teacher.....
ReplyDeleteHopefully, you've learnt from this experience.... The next thing is to move on.....
Life of cos goes on....
Remember, you're not cheap... It's just his loss cos he might never find another like you......
LEARN FROM THIS EXPERIENCE